Mary Jane HARDIN

23 Apr 1839 - 6 Jan 1933

Father: James Allen HARDIN
Mother: Agnes ASBURY

Family 1 : Charles Isaac ROBINSON

  1.  Ida ROBINSON
  2.  Josephine ROBINSON
  3.  Mary Agnes ROBINSON

Family 2 :

  1.  Frances C. ROBINSON

Family 3 : Dr. H. R. FOWLER

  1.  Herman FOWLER
  2.  Henri R. FOWLER

 
                                        _Henry HARDING _____+
                       _Henry HARDING _|
                      |                |_Rebecca NETHERTON _
 _James Allen HARDIN _|
|                     |                 _Benjamin SMITH ____
|                     |_Mary SMITH ____|
|                                      |_Judith HURST ______
|
|--Mary Jane HARDIN 
|
|                                       ____________________
|                      _--- ASBURY ____|
|                     |                |____________________
|_Agnes ASBURY _______|
                      |                 ____________________
                      |_Mary COMPTON __|
                                       |____________________
 

Notes:

Narrated in the 1920's, a memoir of her trip across the Plains in 1851 and her early days in Sonoma. From Henry Hardin of California, by Fredna Tweedt Irvine (Belmont, MA: 1976), page 47:
  The family left Kentucky in 1847 and crossed the Missouri River on a ferry to Johnson County, Missouri, going directly to Uncle Henry's farm. Uncle Henry had many farms and a flour and woolen mill. He had 150 negroes and he had sheep and cattle which the negroes tended. We stayed with Uncle Henry for a year...
In 1848 we went to Independence, Missouri, where father was an overseer in the Stone wagon shop. They sent government supplies to Mexico during the war. Father was a wheelwright...
When the war was over, the need for wagons diminished, so father started west in 1849, accompanied by Uncle Colemen Asbury. We were heartbroken when they left, knowing the danger which they would risk. The trip was made by oxen. There was cholera on the way but they couldn't stop to bury the dead. Scurvy was developed and father went to hunt mountain sheep alone. In his wandering he came upon an upheaval. He found what he thought was lead. As they were short of bullets, he took all he could carry back to camp where they made bullets out of some of it. Father was head carpenter for General Vallejo and after he had been there two years, sent Uncle Coleman Asbury back with $2,000.00 to bring the family, which included six children, and to buy supplies for the trip. The supplies were bought in Independence. Included in our party were mother, Uncle Leach Loller, Uncle Charles and Nancy Owens, negro Alden and the six children. Grandmother Hardin went to Mildred's, who lived in Kansas City. When we arrived in California, we heard that grandma, Aunt Mildred and a daughter 14 years old had died of cholera. In making an overland group many such parites as the Hardin family would join together for the matter of safety and protection. The captain of our train was Colonel Caldwell, who knew the trails through experience.
We started the first of May 1851 and had to cross the Missouri River again for fording...
It was four and a half month from the time we left Missouri until we landed in Sonoma City... When we reached our place of 40 acres, we found our house had only a roof and walls up, and father was still working for General Vallejo (who owned the grant). Father was working for $8.00 and $10.00 per day. Gen. Vallejo had wished that father would settle near the fort in order to protect his family. The Indians were civilized in this region and worked for Gen. Vallejo, who was both kind and just to them. Oats grew so high you could not see a man standing in them. Gen. Vallejo gave father permission to take all the wild horses which he could taem, and as many wild cattle as he could tame also. Father made a correll out of a stockade of logs and would tie these cattle and horses...
Father soon sold our place in Sonoma to a Frenchman, together with the unfinished house, for which he got $4,000.00 in slugs which had eight sides. He brought it home at dusk over his shoulder in a canvas sack which he put under the house. We were scared to death he would be robbed so the next day he went to General Vallejo and deposited it for 360 acres of land fifteen miles from Sonoma.
So it was that we moved near to what is now the town of Petaluma, but was then only a barren waste. The lumber from the trees was split and worked into condition to build our house. Quilts were hung over the openings. It was a real struggle of brave people living in that undeveloped section. Only winter a flood came and covered the district between Petaluma and the hills where we lived.
We were forced to make our own coffee and flour. The coffee was made from roasted barley. Later coffee was brought up on a supply ship which came up Petaluma Creek from San Francisco and cost $50.00 for a barrel. Usually mother and I drove to Sonoma 15 miles for our supplies once each month. We left at daybreak in a buckboard wagon with "Hun" the mare to drive. Wild Spanish cattle would sometimes follow. The horses would take them as foes and tried to drive them off by rearing and pawing.
Coleman Asbury married a woman of Spanish descent in Boyes Hot Springs.
Mother's mother was a Compton...
Aunt Nancy Owen, mother's sister was a beautiful woman.
We used to play with the Vallejo children; they learned English and we learned Spanish. There were fifteen children. We used to go to dances with the Vallejo girls, ant the Vallejo adobe fort outside of Petaluma. Lib and I were the only ones old enough to go. The Vallejo girls carried cigarettes in their corset. When we got home mother would smell our breath and switched us. She said, "tobacco is for the comfort of old people." I never wanted to live to be forty because that was too old. In Kentucky and the old women used snuff...
General Vallejo had a private teacher. She taught nice table manners. There was a private school in Sonoma taught by Joe Newell. I wanted to go but was told, "You can get along without more education, let Lib go instead." "We'll buy you a nice horse and saddle," mother said.
In 1853 or '54 James Fair, a 25 year old Irishman, bought from Gen. Vallejo the 160 acres of land adjoining us. He was a happy addition to our neighborhood and was elected constable of Vallejo township. Chasing a brown brear on horseback was the only duty he performed in that office. James used to spend the evening with us. He used to pass the evening playing cards, euchre, and James would squeeze my hand under the table. That fellow sure could love. When he went to the city he bought both myself and Elizabeth a $5.00 leghorn hat of which we were very proud. I liked him, but mother was very insistant with advice, 'Do not marry an Irishman.' James suggested that we run away. However, I followed mother's advice and never disobeyed by bringing an Irishman into the family.
When we went to camp meetings mother would stick me in the back with her umbrella when I got to laughing.
Hoops were in vogue those days and we had to be careful or they would fly up in front.

 

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